And it's a little blurry, similar to what happens when you record onto a DVD at too compressed a rate? (IE: 6 hour recorded VHS to a 6 HR DVD recording format) Is this because my Cable box isn't HD, and also my VCR/DVD Dubber isn't HD? Some channels and DVDs are worse than others? Signal goes from Cable to Cable Box, to VCR, to TV (also running it through a converter in between the VCR and TV, since I used to have a TV without all the extra connections, it just had the cable connection)
Also, what's the difference between the 16:9 picture mode and Widescreen picture mode?
Sounds like you hooked up your equipment in just about the worst way possible.
First, if you want true HDTV, you will need to get a HD cable box, or a ATSC (broadcast HD) antenna.
Your HD TV probably has a QAM digital cable tuner in it. Your TV would need a direct cable RF connection to use that to tune whatever HD channels you get in the clear, probably mostly local ones.
Your cable box needs a direct cable RF connection, to tune what it can tune.
Your "VCR/DVD dubber," I guess you mean a VCR/DVD recorder combo, will need its own cable RF connection, to tune what ever is left as analog NTSC on your cable system, probably not much.
This would mean a three way splitter on your cable, right out of the wall.
The best connection from a non-HD cable box is S-Video. That is also the best connection you can send from any cable box, even HD, to a DVD recorder.
The best connection from a HD cable box to your TV is HDMI, or component. Likewise, HDMI, or component from your DVD player to your HDTV is far superior, with your DVD player/recorder set to output progressive scan signals to your 16x9 TV.
Here's what you really should do:
Get a HD cable box. Run HDMI from that to your TV. Run S-Video and R/L audio to your DVD recorder.
Run HDMI, or Component and R/L audio, from your DVD player/recorder to your TV.
If there is enough left in analog on your cable system that you want to record directly from raw cable, to your VCR/DVDR, using its tuner, get a two way cable splitter from your cable company. Install it on the cable where it comes out of the wall. Send it to your cable box, and to your VCR/DVDR. Don't worry about sending it directly to your TV, you won't need it, if you have a HD cable box.
Get what cords you can, free from your cable company. Probably just HDMI to your TV, a splitter, and a couple short pieces of RF (coax) cable to hook up your cable box and VCR/DVDR.
Get the other cables you need, S-Video, audio, HDMI or component, from
www.monoprice.com. They are the cheapest. If you do this, and get it together correctly, you will be wowed!